Tuesday 24 September 2013


Top of the day to you.

Some people organize their life in a way that they do not have time for themselves.

Many  people live for other people. They live for their husbands, wives, their children, or  their friends. They give so much of themselves away and there is nothing left.

You have to exist before you can be anybody’s husband, wife, parent or friend. You cannot give all of your time away to the point that you do not have time for yourself anymore.

You need to create time for yourself. And sometimes when you feel you are out of control of your life, get out of activity. Stay with God and rediscover yourself.

After you have made God first place in your life, you are next. If you cannot find time to love yourself, you cannot love anybody better than you love yourself.

chris
True success comes with a balance. Do you value the relationships in your life?
Relationships are more important than achievements.
I believe it is very important that you take your family seriously. This is because whatever you achieve in life, if something goes wrong with your family, it takes a whole lot away from what you have achieved.
The family is the place where our character is tested and our weaknesses discovered. The people closest to you will see the way you are and easily steer you towards the right direction. Some people spend so much time at work and forget that their families need quality time. They replace quality time with toys for their children and gifts for their spouse if there is any complain. But gifts cannot substitute for love, affection, attention or care.
We need to put our family on the priority list. I sense that the spiritual, emotional, and psychological investments we make into them count far more than buying toys or gifts for them.
Sam Adeyemi Coaching Programme:
Have you been neglecting your family because of work? You have another opportunity to make things right. Take them out this weekend and spend quality time with them, as you do that, try not to mention anything about work.

Monday 16 September 2013

succeding in life


Welcome to a new week!

Are you full of expectations this week? Your expectations will not be cut off.

So many things in our lives will compete for first place but everything or everyone cannot be first place in our lives. .

You have God to deal with;  you have yourself to handle,  you have your spouse to handle, you have your family to handle, you have friends, your work, or ministry to handle; something has to be first, some other things second. If everything will be first, you will have yourself confused.

We are created for focus. Even though we have two eyes, both of them are supposed to see the same thing at the same time, not two different things.

We need focus to succeed in life. So I want to suggest you put your  life in order for maximum impact.

Sam Adeyemi Coaching Programme:
Many things demand for our attention, but we cannot attend to them at the same time. This week, I want to advice that you list all the things and people that need your attention and begin to practice the act of prioritsing. Take them one after the other starting with the number one most important person or thing.